Living in a universe that quite literally pulls everything toward you that you vibrate with, being in a constant state of unhappiness will only attract more of that to you.
Gone Too Soon, But Not Gone Forever
I looked down and the Coke and gasped. The bottle said, "Share a Coke with Jennifer." The look of shock on Stephanies' face and the subsequent tears told me this wasn't premeditated. She had just grabbed the drinks and didn't even notice. But I did, and so did my step-sister apparently who put my fears to rest that she would in fact be at my wedding.